Tuesday, September 18, 2007

Bit the proverbial bullet

3 posts in one day...that's a first for me!

I did it. She actually made it easy and said noticed I'm not myself and has been up at night driving herself crazy imagining the worse and that I didn't have to give her any info if I didn't want to, just to let her know if I was ok or not. So I told the whole story and managed not to break down sobbing in the middle of C.oastal Flats, just teared up a little. She said some of the things I wanted to hear and none of the things I didn't want to. So that was good. Asked some questions but didn't probe too much and then, thankfully dropped it and went back to discussing our soaps.

Overall, I'm glad I did it....we'll see how it goes. She did say she wouldn't mention anything to the rest of the fam, but she does talk to her 2 sisters every day so we'll see.

thanks for all of the support today, I feel so lucky to have stumbled upon such an amazing group of women!

7 comments:

Fertilize Me said...

woohooo go you .. go you

Shelby said...

I'm glad it went so well! Sometimes it's just really nice to have someone who really knows you, who isn't your hubby, to talk to about things. Hopefully she'll be able to keep it from her sisters for you.

Pamela Jeanne said...

"She said some of the things I wanted to hear and none of the things I didn't want to." Nice! Now you've established a good foundation and can take it where you want to...

LJ said...

I am so glad this went well for you, truly. It helps.

JJ said...

Glad it went well--I hope you feel a sense of relief=)

Diana said...

Glad you told her!!! Especially glad she reacted so well!!!

Debby said...

In the quest to become a mom, I know I couldn't get through it without my mom. Something about a mother's love and compassion in the really sucky times makes it a little bit better.

And...I'm sure I HAVE cried about IF in the middle of coastal flats before....more than once. So hooray for your control there! I become a blubbering mess.